MY IDEAL HUSBAND

My ideal husband (age 22)

* handsome

* sympathetic

* good financial status

* who listens with interest

* advanced understanding of humor

* able-bodied

* well-dressed

* having fun about all

* who likes surprises

* romantic and sophisticated imagination

My ideal husband (age 32)

* good-looking, preferably head with the hair

* who opens the door coming down out of the car, holding chair when we go to dinner

* who has currency to take an expensive restaurant

* who listens instead of talking

* who laughs laughter when i tell jokes

*able-bodied to carry my all shopping bags

* who has ties with at least 1

* who likes my dishes

* who doesn’t forget birthday and anniverseries

* who can be romantic at least one time per week

My ideal husband (age 42)

* not too ugly, OK may be bald

* who doesn’t  start the car before i board

* disciplined in business

* who takes me to dinner when opportunity

* who shakes head while listening to me

* who remembers the crucial areas which i told jokes

* able-bodied who helps me to change the location of the house

* who chooses clothes that will camouflage belly way

* who doesn’t  forget to close the toilet cover

* who shaves most weekend

My ideal husband (age 52)

* who doesn’t have too long nose and ear hair

* who doesn’t fart within the community

*who doesn’t have habit to ask for money

* who doesn’t fall asleep while i'm explaining something

* able-bodied who lifts his butt from seat at weekends

* best-dressed

* who likes watch TV while eating

* who doesn’t forget my name

* who shaves sometimes

My ideal husband (age 62)

* who doesn’t scare little childrens

* who remembers where is the bathroom

* not too expensive his maintenance

* who snores noise as much as possible

* who doesn’t forget suddenly what he is laughing

* able-bodies who can stand up without help

* dressed

* who likes mash food

* who doesn’t forget where to put teeth

* who remembers when the last time was

My ideal husband (age 72)

*BREATHING!

     Actually, my ideal husband can be like the first one (age 22). Probably, i want too things. There is no perfect man. I would like excellence although i know it is impossible.

     I have big dreams. I want to a husband whom i share my whole life with. One of the features that i want is he should be honest to me. He shouldn’t say a lie to me whatever will be. I should trust him. He should be trusted himself. The most important thing is he must treat me good.  His voice shouldn’t increase against me. He shouldn’t beat me. He shouldn’t hurt me.

      Even if there are more beautiful woman than me, he shouldn’t realize them. He should think that i am the must attractive women in the world. Even if it isn’t so. I want my husband listen to me with interest. I don’t want to feel that he isn’t listening to me. If i’m telling something to him, he should listen to me looking at my eyes. I want to talk to him in all subjects. I should get along with him. I should listen to him, too. He may feels what i feel.  He must understand me when he look my eyes.

     It better he has a sense of humour. I prefer to laugh with him instead of crying. He should make me laugh. I can die while laughing. Even if his jokes aren’t funny, I must laugh. The same way that he must laugh. Everything must be mutual.

     One of the most important things is he should has a good job. He should earn money for us. He shouldn’t be so rich. It can be enough to provide our need. We have get less money, but we can be happy.

     I sometimes want small surprises. He should know how he’ll make me happy. I can give him some clues. He can buy a red rose to me. He can prepare breakfast for me. He can buy a single stone ring or a couple of a earring. It’s only a joke. If he smile at me one time, it is enough for me to be happy.

     When we have a child, he shouldn’t love him/her so much than me. I can be jeaolus. He can love us equally. If we have a child, he should care for him/her. When I am tired, he should say me: ‘ Oh! My love, come on! İ can look after our baby. It’s our baby, not only yours. You can trust me.’ I hope that i’ll have such a thoughtful husband.

    Not only in baby sitting, he should help me in the kitchen. I know that ı want  too much thnigs to come true. Alright! I don’t say that he must be cooking, ı want only some help. We can have a good time. 

     Actually, I want something like that everyone wants. Honesty, loyalty, understanding, sense of humour, good job, help… As I said, there is no perfect man. I’m not looking for a perfect man. I’m only looking for a man who will love love me forever. When I'm a old women, one will be by my side. One will be die with me...

AYŞE BALIN